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Oct 14, 20253 min read
The 69% Rule: Why Most Relationship Problems Aren’t Meant to Be Solved
If you’ve ever felt like you and your partner are having the same argument over and over again , you’re not alone. According to...
Oct 7, 20252 min read
Rediscovering the Power of Ritual in Modern Life
When you hear the word ritual , what comes to mind? For many, it brings up images of ancient ceremonies, incense smoke, or long-forgotten...
Sep 23, 20253 min read
The Identity Crisis of the Helper: Rediscovering Yourself Beyond Being Needed
If you’ve spent much of your life as “the helper,” this may sound familiar: You’re the one people call when something goes wrong. You’re...
Sep 16, 20253 min read
How to Build Self-Trust: 10 Steps (Plus a Quick Exercise to Strengthen It Today)
Self-trust is the foundation of confidence, emotional resilience, and healthy relationships. When you trust yourself, you can make...
Sep 9, 20252 min read
Why We Rush to Fill Silences—and What We Miss When We Do
Have you ever noticed yourself blurting something out just to break a pause? Maybe it’s small talk that doesn’t matter, or an...
Sep 2, 20254 min read
Reinventing Yourself After Divorce: Confidence, Growth, and Empowerment
by guest blogger Eleanor Wyatt Divorce can feel like an earthquake, shaking the ground beneath your feet and scattering pieces of the...
Aug 26, 20252 min read
Could Your Morning Coffee Be Fueling the Disconnection in Your Marriage?
You think it’s just coffee. It’s how you get going. How you push through. How you cope. But if you're always running on caffeine, there’s...
Aug 19, 20253 min read
What If My Partner and I Just Don’t Want the Same Things Anymore?
When you're in a relationship, it’s easy to fall into the routine of thinking that the person you’re with will always be on the same path...
Aug 12, 20253 min read
How Do I Know If I’m the Problem?
It’s a question that often runs through the minds of people caught in the cycle of repeated relationship issues: Am I the problem? If...
Aug 5, 20253 min read
Why Can’t We Talk About Hard Things Without It Turning Into a Fight?
Conflict is inevitable, but avoidance makes everything worse . If you’ve ever tried to talk about something important, only to find it spiraling into a fight, you’re not alone. That familiar feeling of being misunderstood, or worse, attacked, can make it seem like having a simple conversation is impossible. But what’s really going on beneath the surface? Why does talking about hard things often feel like stepping into a battle? The answer lies in our nervous systems and the h
Jul 29, 20253 min read
Is It Normal to Feel Lonely in a Long-Term Relationship?
It’s easy to assume that loneliness is a problem in relationships that are "failing"—but I’m here to tell you, it’s a natural part of the ebb and flow of connection, even in healthy long-term partnerships. We’ve all felt it at some point—the distance between you and your partner that’s not physical, but emotional. Maybe you're sharing a space, but not a connection. Maybe you’re not fighting, but you're not really feeling either. The loneliness feels like an invisible wall be
Jul 22, 20254 min read
How Do I Know If I’m Settling or Just Being Unrealistic?
We’ve all been there—staring at our relationship, wondering if we’re settling for less than we deserve or if our expectations are just too high. The confusion between these two can be paralyzing. On one hand, we’re told to never settle —to hold out for the partner who meets our every need. On the other, we’re bombarded with the idea that we need to be realistic , to compromise and accept imperfections. So, how do we know the difference between settling and being unrealistic?
Jul 15, 20253 min read
Starting a Business With Your Significant Other:What to Know Before You Begin
Written by contributor Eleanor Wyatt Starting a business with your partner might sound like a dream—shared goals, trust, and the thrill...
Jul 8, 20254 min read
Why Do I Feel Like I’m the Only One Putting in Effort?
If you're feeling like you're the only one putting in the effort in your relationship, you're not alone. Many of us have been there. You're giving, you're trying, you're showing up—and yet, it feels like your partner isn't quite on the same page. It’s frustrating, and it’s exhausting. So, what’s really going on behind the scenes? At the heart of this struggle lies a pattern I see all too often in my coaching practice: over-functioning . It’s the dynamic where one partner take
May 27, 20254 min read
Golden Vows: Navigating Marriage and Building a Joyful Life Together in Your Senior Years
by guest blogger Eleanor Wyatt Golden Vows: Navigating Marriage and Building a Joyful Life Together in Your Senior Years Getting married...
May 20, 20255 min read
Why Do I Feel So Drained After Spending Time With My Partner?
It’s all too common to feel drained, exhausted, or mentally and emotionally depleted after spending time with your partner. You may wonder: "Why do I feel this way, when I should feel more energized or happy from being with someone I love?" If this sounds familiar, there may be some unseen dynamics at play—dynamics that impact your well-being on a deeper level than you may realize. Let’s explore the possible reasons behind this emotional fatigue, and discuss how you can recla
May 13, 20255 min read
What does a healthy relationship actually look like?
In a world where Hollywood movies and social media paint a picture of effortless romance, it’s easy to get lost in the fantasy of "perfect" love. The truth is, real relationships—healthy relationships—are far more complex. Discomfort, growth, and, yes, even conflict are part of the process, not signs that something is broken. Maturity in a relationship is not about avoiding these challenges, but learning how to navigate them with grace, respect, and a commitment to growth. S
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