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Why Do I Feel So Drained After Spending Time With My Partner?

It’s all too common to feel drained, exhausted, or mentally and emotionally depleted after spending time with your partner. You may wonder: "Why do I feel this way, when I should feel more energized or happy from being with someone I love?" If this sounds familiar, there may be some unseen dynamics at play—dynamics that impact your well-being on a deeper level than you may realize. Let’s explore the possible reasons behind this emotional fatigue, and discuss how you can recla

What does a healthy relationship actually look like?

In a world where Hollywood movies and social media paint a picture of effortless romance, it’s easy to get lost in the fantasy of "perfect" love. The truth is, real relationships—healthy relationships—are far more complex. Discomfort, growth, and, yes, even conflict are part of the process, not signs that something is broken. Maturity in a relationship is not about avoiding these challenges, but learning how to navigate them with grace, respect, and a commitment to growth. S

How Can I Stop Overthinking Everything in My Relationship?

Understanding the Biology of Rumination, Building Emotional Safety, and Telling the Difference Between Intuition and Fear If you’ve ever found yourself obsessively replaying a conversation, second-guessing every text message, or spiraling into “what-if” scenarios about your relationship—you’re not alone. Overthinking in love is common, but it’s also a sneaky thief of peace, connection, and clarity. The truth is, chronic rumination isn’t just a mindset problem—it’s a physiolog

Why Do I Always Attract Emotionally Unavailable Partners?

And what you can do to stop repeating the same painful pattern. If you’ve found yourself wondering— Why do I keep falling for people who won’t let me in? —you’re not alone. Many people experience the pain of repeatedly attracting emotionally unavailable partners, despite longing for deep, mutual connection. It might feel like bad luck. Or like there’s something wrong with you . But this pattern isn’t random. And it isn’t hopeless. There are real, unconscious forces at play. A

New SIBO info

As a health coach, I've worked with lots of folks over the years who suffered from IBS that turned out to be Small Intestinal Bacterial...

How Can I Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty?

Let’s be honest: most of us know we should set boundaries, but the idea of actually doing it? It makes us cringe. We worry we’ll seem selfish. We’re afraid of hurting someone’s feelings. We don’t want to stir up conflict. So we overextend, stay silent, swallow our resentment, and tell ourselves it’s “not a big deal.” Until it is. If you’ve ever felt guilty for wanting space, saying no, or asking for what you need, this post is for you. Let’s talk about why boundaries are ess

How do I know if my relationship is worth saving?

Relationships take work, and sometimes it’s hard to know when you’ve hit a rough patch versus when it's time to move on. If you find yourself asking, "Is this relationship worth saving?" it's likely you're feeling some deep conflict about the state of your partnership. Whether you're facing minor misunderstandings or more significant challenges, the thought of whether to stay or leave is never easy. In this blog post, we'll explore the signs that indicate whether your relati

What can I do if my partner won't open up?

Open and effective communication is at the core of every strong relationship . However, there may be times when your partner seems emotionally distant or reluctant to share their feelings. It can feel frustrating, confusing, and alienating when your partner won't open up. But there are several ways you can approach the situation to foster understanding, patience, and deeper connection. Here’s how you can navigate this challenge: 1. Create a Safe Space for Communication The fi

Rebuilding Trust

Trust is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship, whether it's with a partner, a friend, a colleague, or a family member. When trust...

The Danger of Pedestals in Relationships

When we’re infatuated, it’s easy to see a partner as extraordinary. Maybe they’re charming, thoughtful, or intelligent in ways that feel...

The Missing Link

The world has become very different in the last 15 years. We can all sense it. Even if we don't know exactly what is different. It's...

I lost my mojo

After a little more than a year of positive momentum; having courageously stepped into the vision I'd created for myself, crushing my...

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